QUALITY TIME W/ KIDS--HA!

       After listening to someone discuss "quality time" with their kids, it reminded me of my own thoughts and feelings of those first time divorce years when my kids were very young. You never wanted to say something to me about---"At least you get to have quality time with your kids!"

        Just spending time with your kids on a week-end or over-nite basis without any controversy is not what it is all about. What made those times special was when you could be there when a child got sick or falling down with an injury and comforting them. Don't get me wrong those week-ends were special, but, it wasn't experiencing all what it means to be a parent!